JEALOUSY

The jealous are troublesome to others, but a torment to themselves.

Quote :  William Penn

Jealous people live with the overwhelming anxiety that their relationship is about to end. They will scan every word and act of their partner, just waiting to find “evidence” of infidelity. All sorts of scenarios will be played out over and over again in their mind further increasing their anxiety.  In most cases, this constant hyper vigilance and obsessive behaviour is unfounded, but ultimately it can lead to the death of the relationship. The very thing they fear the most. Even when their partner begins to withdraw from the relationship, they will redouble their efforts to control their partners life and to bring them “back in line“, until eventually, the relationship dies.

Jealousy is the fear of loss or abandonment, which usually stems from being abandoned by someone they loved and needed in childhood, leaving the child hurting, frightened and powerless to do anything about it.

The jealous person will do absolutely anything to avoid experiencing that terrible hurt, fear and pain that they felt in childhood.

If you are experiencing jealousy, then now is the time to do something about it. The longer you leave it, the more it will affect your life and the lives of those around you.

The good news is that those feelings that you just cannot control can be banished very quickly, using the power of hypnosis.

Hypnotherapy works by helping you become aware of the core issues in your past which act as triggers for the jealousy.

Using the power of the subconscious mind your confidence and self esteem are boosted; with negative thought and behaviour patterns being re channeled into positive thoughts. The previously used jealousy response will simply fade into the past, as new responses take their place becoming your habitual way of dealing with threats.

Subsequently, you will notice how your outward behaviour has been affected as you will be much more calm and relaxed.

Remember negativity breeds negativity, so if your behaviour changes you will also notice your partners behaviour changing.

You will be amazed at just how quickly you see the benefits in your life and the lives of those around you.

Imagine waking every day calm, relaxed and in control of your thoughts and emotions. Being able to focus on enjoying life and having fun once more.

Please contact me if you would like to arrange an appointment, or if you have any questions